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Welcome to our queer dating universe
Welcome to our queer dating universe
Whether you're looking for a spark, a flirt, a soulmate, or just a story to tell at brunch, Cuff It hosts curated queer dating nights to bring LGBTIA New Yorkers together in real, intentional, joyful ways.
No endless scrolling.
No ghosting.
No algorithms.
Just actual humans you're interested in meeting face-to-face (and looking amazing under neon lights).
Explore every version of Cuff It - from high-energy gay speed dating to warm, cozy T4T slow dating. Each event is unique crafted, but all share the same mission:
Connection. Community. Chemistry.
Fast paced, flirty, chaotic in the best way. Hosted weekly by NYC drag royalty.
Perfect for tops, bottoms, verse, romantics, himbos, intellectuals, and guys in between.
For lesbians, bi women, queer femmes, studs, soft butches, stone tops - all sapphic identifies welcome.
Tender, electric, conversational.
For bisexual, pansexual, and fluid cuties who want a space that truly gets them.
Expect fun prompts, lots of laughs, and every configuration of attraction.
A gentle, affirming space created specifically for trans people to meet other trans people.
Longer rounds. Softer lighting. Real connections.
Slow dating as it should be.
A pressure-free meet-cute environment for asexual and aromantic-spectrum folks
Conversations emphasized, vibes prioritized, boundaries respected.
How It Works
How It Works
Buy your ticket
Check in with our Ticket Goddess at the front door
Get your name tag with your identifying number
Rotate through rounds
Submit your matches via email
Get notified the next day
If you match? Your first date is on us at the next event
Why People Love Cuff It
Why People Love Cuff It
Drag-hosted, meaning it's fun even if you don't fall in love
Structured enough to remove awkwardness
Queer enough to feel like home
And most importantly:
Because New York is full of amazing people - you just haven't been seated across from them yet.
Ready to Find Your People?
Ready to Find Your People?
Explore each event type and sign up for the night that fits you.
You're one conversation away from something unforgettable.
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